A lot of my radio show callers tell me that it's hard to keep things in the bedroom as hot as they'd like. I get it! If you're looking at the same painting on the wall, striped bedspread, and potted plant in the corner everytime you're doing it, even something as fun as sex can start to feel predictable. And if there's one thing I know, predictability and sex are NOT a good combo.
Luckily I have an easy fix that anyone—no matter where you live or when you want to get busy—can try. It's all about changing your view. If sex in your bedroom is getting monotonous, here are some of my favorite places to try instead:
The Laundry Room
It might sound odd at first, but the laundry room is the perfect place to get down and dirty. There's something about the height of the machine and the gentle rocking motion that make for a super sexy combination. The wash cycle produces an intriguing range of vibrations, and the dryer releases sensual heat, although I bet your own heat will be enough to keep you warm! If your heights don't quite match up, try stepping on a stool to even things out. You can experiment with sitting or lying on the machine, or with him sitting on top of it and you on top of him with your legs wrapped around his waist. Try a warm or hot wash, and use the cotton cycle for the longest and fastest spin and most vibration.
The Sofa
As you're scouting for sexual adventure, don't overlook couches and overstuffed chairs. Comfy and casual, they provide additional back support and their low height (compared to beds) makes a range of positions possible. Try straddling his lap, using the soft cushions as comfortable support for your needs. If the cushions aren't cooperating, he can bounce his knees a bit, sending you up and down with little effort. Try holding hands while you bounce so you can lean back farther. This creates an anchoring line that allows for heavier rocking and rolling.
The Shower
The shower is tailor-made for steamy sex sessions. It's warm, it's wet, and it lets you go wild since the sound of running water drowns out any groans, squeals, or other sounds of pleasure you might emit. Try it with you bending over and him entering from behind. This works well in the shower because you can anchor your hands on your calves for support. Make sure you use a silicone-based lube like Pjur[1] anytime you're getting frisky in the water. Silicone lubes are waterproof -- you'll need to rinse the lube off with soap and water but it won't wash off till you're done with it.
The Porch
Sex in the great outdoors can be stunningly sensual. If you're a little uneasy about getting naked in an unfamiliar outdoor spot, keep it local! A porch swing, poolside lounge, or other garden furniture lets you experience outdoor action without fear of prying eyes. Just make sure your neighbors don't have a view into your yard!
The Car
While fumbling around in your car might take you back to your senior prom, there's something about pulling over in a secluded spot and getting it on that's exhilarating and HOT! Especially with the added intrigue of hoping you don't get busted by a passing highway patrolman or overly curious driver. "Woman On Top" position is probably easiest if you stay up front, but you can also hop in the back where you can spread out more, especially if you drive a station wagon or minivan. Just remember to clean up the evidence when you're done. You don't want your early-morning carpool to ask about stains or wet spots on the seats!
XO,
Emily
Emily Morse[2] is a sexologist, host of the Sex With Emily podcast, and cofounder of Emily & Tony[3]. She has a doctorate in human sexuality and is the author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight and a weekly cohost of the nationally syndicated radio show Loveline With Dr. Drew Pinsky.
Photos: Samantha Hahn
References
- ^ Pjur (www.goodvibes.com)
- ^ Emily Morse (sexwithemily.com)
- ^ Emily & Tony (emilyandtony.com)
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